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【Freshmen, please pay attention to ♥ Daman's confidant sister is online 3⃣ chapters】

Little sisters and brothers who are new to the United States👯, most of them still have a lot of habits in China, but they don’t know that some habits that we think are well-intentioned are taboos in the United States😱😱! ! Next, I will introduce some behaviors that work well in China, but must pay attention to them abroad! ! Please watch carefully!


1:📣 When in China, we like to greet acquaintances enthusiastically and loudly❌❌, such behavior must be corrected! When people in the United States see acquaintances, they will wave first 👋 and then approach and say hello 👯. And most public places are relatively quiet🤐, people keep their voices low, unless there is an emergency, generally no one will shout.


2:📣 Get rid of the habit of casually joking with others. Some freshmen will tell a white lie or two in order to show closeness. Just kidding, everyone in China thinks these are normal. But NO! NO! In the United States, white lies are lying, dishonesty, which will greatly reduce your own credibility and may result in you having no friends! Because the United States is a very trustworthy nation, their economic and social status are based on personal credit, and they cannot tolerate others without credit. ! !


3:📣There is also a very common phenomenon in China, that is, seeing cute children, like to touch their little faces, touch their heads, etc. This is a very bad habit, very impolite, and don't give it to children casually, otherwise you may be regarded as an invincible bad guy! ! As much as possible, don't touch other people's pets casually, and don't feed them casually! Add! ! Don't take pictures of other people's children! !


4:📣Don't hang your clothes outside! ! Especially underwear! ! ! Otherwise you can be a pervert 😂


5:📣There is a detail in life, everyone should pay attention to it. Simply put, it is [ladies first]. For example, when going up and down the elevator, the lady should be at the front door, the man should open the door, and the woman will be advanced; When taking a seat, the woman also sits first; but on the contrary, when getting off the bus, going downstairs, and going out, the man can walk in front to take care of the woman.

6:📣When visiting someone else’s house, don’t go too early than the agreed time🕐, maybe a few minutes later than the scheduled time is the most appropriate, if you are too late, please notify the host first.


7:📣The question of whether to bring gifts🎁 when visiting others is also worth mentioning. Personally, I think that gifts are a must, one is to express gratitude to the host for the hospitality, and the other is not to be empty-handed and ugly what! Gifts🎁 can choose flowers in bottles🌻🌹🌸 (provided that the owner is not allergic to pollen), fruit bowls🍒🍑🍉🍊 are also good choices.


8:📣When you are invited to someone else's house for dinner, be careful not to express your fullness before the hostess finishes eating, which is very impolite.


9:📣Before visiting others, it is recommended to take a bath💅, clean and fresh, more polite. After arriving at the host's house, it is recommended to take off your shoes and hat for the sake of courtesy.


10:📣After entering the house of the person you are visiting, don't wander around or touch things without the permission of the owner! You can wait for the host to take the initiative to show you around! Personally, I really hate people like this 😡! Don't ask the owner about the price of things, it's really annoying. The feeling of snooping on privacy!


The above are 1⃣0⃣ thoughtful tips for new students, hum da❤, I hope it will be useful to everyone!


 Old rules burst time hahaha😂, the first of three good memories!


👇The first close contact photo: Pelican.
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👇The first time I ate authentic hot pot on a business trip with my husband (left) and colleagues! ! Hahaha the point is hot pot! ! And this photo is also street style, show it today!
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👇The first time it snowed in the house I rented! beautiful!
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【新生请注意♥大曼知心姐姐上线3⃣篇】

初到美国的小姐姐小哥哥们👯,大多数还有着很多在国内的一些习惯,殊不知某些我们以为是善意的习惯,在美国却是大忌😱😱!!下面我再介绍一些在国内行得通,国外却一定要注意注意再注意的行为!!请大家仔细观看哦!


1:📣 在国内的时候,见到熟人我们喜欢热情的高声打招呼❌❌,这样的行为一定要改正!而美国的人见到熟人的时候都会先招手👋然后走近了再开口打招呼👯。而且大多数公众的场合相对来说比较安静🤐,人们说话保持比较小的声音,除非有紧急情况,一般是不会有人大喊大叫的。


2:📣改掉随便和别人开玩笑的习惯,一些新生为了表示亲近,会说一两句善意的谎言,或者开个玩笑,在国内大家认为这些都是正常的。但是NO!NO!在美国,善意的谎言就是撒谎,不诚实的表现,这对你自己的信誉会大打折扣,有可能会导致你没有朋友!因为美国是一个很讲信誉的民族,他们经济和社会地位都是建立在个人的信誉基础上的,不能忍受别人没有信誉。!!


3:📣还有一个在国内非常普遍的现象,就是看到可爱的小朋友,喜欢摸摸小脸蛋,摸摸头之类的。这是个非常不好的习惯,非常不礼貌,更不要随便给小朋友吃的,不然有可能你会被认为是无敌大坏人!!尽可能的别人的宠物也不要随便摸,不要随便喂食!补充一下!!也不要随便给别人的孩子拍照!!


4:📣千万不要把衣服晾在外面!!尤其是内衣!!!否则你也能会当成变态😂


5:📣有一个生活细节,大家要注意一下,简单的说就是【女士优先】,比如在日常上下电梯的时候,应女士在前进门,男士则开门,女士先进;入座的时候,也是女士先坐;但是相反的,下车,下楼,出门,男士可以走在前面,以便照顾女士。

6:📣去别人家做客的时候,不要比约定的时间🕐去的太早,大概比预定时间晚个几分钟最合适,如果迟到太久,请一定先通知主人。


7:📣关于拜访别人是否带礼物🎁这个问题,也值得一说,个人认为,礼物是必须得,一是因为为主人的招待表示感谢,二是不至于两手空空很难看啊!礼物🎁可以选择放在瓶子中的鲜花🌻🌹🌸(前提主人不会花粉过敏),水果盘🍒🍑🍉🍊也是不错的选择。


8:📣受邀请到别人家做客吃饭的时候,要注意不要抢在女主人吃完之前表示吃饱了,很不礼貌。


9:📣拜访别人之前,建议认真洗个澡💅,干净清爽比较礼貌。到达主人家以后,礼貌起见建议主动脱鞋,脱帽,如果主人强烈要求不用脱鞋也可以不脱,这个看情况。


10:📣进去拜访的人家里以后,未经过主人允许,千万别到处乱逛,乱碰东西!可以等主人主动带你参观!个人是超级讨厌这样的人😡!也不要乱问主人东西得价格,真的很讨厌。窥探隐私的感觉!


以上是对新生的1⃣0⃣条贴心tip,么么哒❤,希望对大家有用!


 老规矩爆照时间哈哈哈😂,三个美好的回忆中的第一次!


👇第一次近距离接触 拍照:鹈鹕。
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👇第一次和老公(左)还有同事一起去出差时候吃的地道火锅!!哈哈哈重点是火锅!!而且这个照片还有街拍风的,今天秀一下!
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👇自己租的房子第一次下大雪!美!
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